英语翻译我们应该让人生充满希望、快乐、梦想,做您想做的事情,过您想过的人生.一个人一生中扮演各种角色,就如同一条彩虹同时具有许多色带.这些角色包括儿女、学生、休闲者、公民、

英语翻译我们应该让人生充满希望、快乐、梦想,做您想做的事情,过您想过的人生.一个人一生中扮演各种角色,就如同一条彩虹同时具有许多色带.这些角色包括儿女、学生、休闲者、公民、
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我们应该让人生充满希望、快乐、梦想,做您想做的事情,过您想过的人生.一个人一生中扮演各种角色,就如同一条彩虹同时具有许多色带.这些角色包括儿女、学生、休闲者、公民、工作者、配偶、家管人员、父母及退休者等.无论哪种角色,都离不开人际交往,都在不断的学习中进步.
“一加一可能等于一,叫做‘事倍功半’；一加一可能等于二,叫做‘一分耕耘一分收获’；一加一也可能等于四,那是‘事半功倍’.”人要能做到一加一等于四,取到事半功倍的绝好效果,是很不容易的.如何能取得这样绝好效果”呢?以下几点以供借鉴.
敏锐的心
在与人相处中,怀有一颗敏锐的心,就是愿意用心去了解别人,能看到别人的需要,并且付出行动去满足别人的需要,也就是本书前面提到的“同理心”,即英文单词“empathy”,把这个单词拆开更容易了解：em即进入之意；pathy是内心世界的感觉,empathy即进入他人内心世界的感觉,从对方的角度考虑对方的需求.用中文就是“将心比心”,从对方的角度来了解事情的原委,尊重彼此的不同点,尽可能地创造对双方都有益的状况.
在此,很关键的一点是要做到“换位思考”,即站在对方的立场去考虑他的想法,了解他的感受,而不是站在自己的主观立场来武断评判.如果我们能对周遭的一切以同理心来了解,相信一定能减少许多纷争、纠葛.
倾听的耳
在与人相处当中,若不是有些话非说不可,那么倾听永远比说话来得重要.做个愿意倾听的人很难,做个耐心的听众更难,因为能耐心地静坐聆听他人意见的人,必定是富于思想和具备谦虚柔和性格的人,这种人总是受人尊敬的.要成为一个这样的人,首先要真诚,唯有真诚的态度才更容易让人接受.
智能的舌
适时、适当地沟通可以避免许多不必要的猜测和误会,增进彼此的了解与认同,是建立和谐人际关系不可或缺的方法.悟性通天的人,说出话来很微妙,智慧高超的人,说出话来很简明,品性贤能的人,说出话来很清楚.所以,说话要用智慧.
关爱的眼
虽然社会如此进步,似乎每个人都是“强人”,但仔细看看四周,是不是会发现还有许多人需要帮助?关爱的眼,可以帮助我们发现周围的人内心对爱与被爱的渴望；关爱的眼,使我们的世界变得不一样.
助人的手
现代人有时候太聪明了,凡事总要先算一算,连帮助他人也要计算需付出多少代价,再考虑是否伸出援手.我们忘记了古语有句话叫做“失之东隅,收之桑榆”,有时吃亏就是占便宜,多为别人做一点,不计较太多,那么当你需要帮助的时候,朋友就在你的身边,帮人就是帮自己.
踏实的脚
讲求速见效果是目前社会的特征之一,许多人一心追求名利,舍弃克勤克俭、踏实耕耘.成功学的书籍畅销全球不可说与现代人急于求成无关,追求效率并没有错,但有许多事并非速度可以取代,特别是人际关系,只求速度的人际关系会流于表面、虚浮善变,这样的关系就像沙上筑堡,负荷不了真实的重量,也禁不起潮水的冲击.所以在建立自己的人际网络中,要做到踏踏实实,舍弃虚假和功利.
相互尊重
人与人之间的沟通是互动的,而且应该是真实的、互相尊重的,所以我们在相处的艺术中一定要秉承相互尊重的态度,也就是给予对方自由的空间,保有个别之差异,每个人都是独一无二的个体,各有存在的价值及潜能.有时尊重就是对一个人的鼓励,尊重是一种无形的助推力,促使着人勇往直前.
双胜双赢
所谓的双胜双赢,英文win-win,就是互蒙其利,以双方皆能获得最大利益为共同中心导向,它不是单向式,而是双向沟通、相互影响.
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英语翻译我们应该让人生充满希望、快乐、梦想,做您想做的事情,过您想过的人生.一个人一生中扮演各种角色,就如同一条彩虹同时具有许多色带.这些角色包括儿女、学生、休闲者、公民、
We should make life full of hope, happiness, dreams, do you want to do things over your thought life. A person to play various roles in life, just as a rainbow ribbon also has many. These roles include children, students, casual person, citizen, worker, spouse, house staff, parents and retirees, etc.. Whatever the role, are inseparable from human communication, continuous learning in progress.
"One plus one may equal to one, called 'perceptibly'; one plus one may equal two, called 'No pain no gain'; one plus one may equal four, it is 'more with less'." People are able to do one plus one equals four, get to a perfect multiplier effect, is not easy. How to achieve such excellent results "mean? The following for reference.
Sensitive heart
Get along with people, the cherished a keen mind, is willing heart to understand others, to see the needs of others, and to action to meet the needs of others, that is mentioned earlier in this book, "empathy" the English word "empathy", the easier to understand the word apart: em into the meaning that; pathy is the inner world of feeling, empathy or feeling into the inner world of others, from the other's point of view each other's needs. Chinese is the "Care", from the other side's point of view to understand the whole story, respect each other's different points as much as possible to create mutually beneficial situation.
In this, it is the key point is to do, "Shoes", which stood on each other's position to consider his ideas, to understand his feelings, not stand on their own subjective arbitrary position to judge. If we can all around to empathy to understand, believe that we can reduce the number of disputes and disputes.
Listening ear
Get along with people in them, if some say something, then listen to forever more important than words. Be willing to listen to the people is difficult, more difficult to be a patient listener, because the sit patiently listening to the views of others who must be rich with ideas and gentle person who is humble, which always respected. To become a person like this, first of all to sincerely, only a sincere attitude is more easily acceptable.
Smart's tongue
Timely and appropriate communication to avoid unnecessary speculation and misunderstanding, enhancing mutual understanding and acceptance is a necessary way to build a harmonious relationship. Sky-savvy people who spoke, very subtle, superb intelligence who spoke, very simple, character wise and competent people, pronounce words clearly. Therefore, the words to use wisdom.
Eye Care
Despite this progress, the community, it seems everyone is a "strong man", but a closer look around, is not it will find that many people need help? Eye care can help us find the people around inner desire for love and be loved; loving eyes, so that our world has become different.
Helping hand
Sometimes too clever modern, first calculate the total everything, even to help others have to calculate how much to pay a price, then consider helping hand. We forget that old saying is called phrase "is neglected and Gains", and sometimes suffer is to take advantage of, mostly for other people to do that, do not care about too much, then when you need help, a friend on your side, helping people is to help themselves.
Practical feet
See the effect of stress rate is one of the characteristics of society, many people bent on the pursuit of fame and fortune, abandoned diligence and frugality, and steadily. Success is not the book selling world that has nothing to do with modern anxious pursuit of efficiency is not wrong, but there are many things you can not replace pace, especially in interpersonal relationships, just to speed the relationship will be superficial and impractical changeable Such a relationship is like sand castle building, the load weight can not be true, and an inability to tidal shocks. Therefore, to establish their own informal networks, to do a down, abandoning the false and utilitarian.

Mutual respect
Interpersonal communication is interactive, and should be true of, mutual respect, and Suoyi the art of getting along with our definitely Yao uphold mutual respect and attitude, that is Jiyuduifang free space to maintain the Chaiyi individual, each You are unique individuals, each existing value and potential. Sometimes respect is the encouragement of a person and respect is an intangible boost and helped the people move forward.
Shuangsheng win
The so-called filthy win-win, the English win-win, is the reciprocal benefit, to the best interests of both parties can receive a common center-oriented, it is not unidirectional, but the two-way communication, mutual influence.